Inviting a "FRIEND", as a third party to assist you, and your partner with your relationship problems, may not be a good idea! In fact, it could further threaten your union!  A mutual friend, personal friend, or family member may struggle with being impartial to your scenario!

Im not saying their advice isn't helpful; but its probably best to seek the assistance from someone outside of the both of you... A third party's job is to help, DISSOLVE or RESOLVE your relationship!  Not blame, take sides, or fuel conflict! 

-THE MISUNDERSTOOD SOCIAL WORKER-