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Your TRUTH, Your Desires

Posted on April 10, 2014 at 12:35 AM Comments comments (2)

If he asked you for your number, taken you on several dates, texts you throughout the day, begs to spend time with you, and later says, "I'm not looking for anything serious"; he's usually telling you, I want ALL of what a relationship has to offer, absent the accountability, commitment, and loyalty!

...MY ADVICE, is to RUN!

Do not compromise your worth desiring companionship with someone who has failed to show the same level of interest in a relationship with y...

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Posted on April 7, 2014 at 4:50 AM Comments comments (102)

Close to a year ago, I experienced romantic heart break for the very first time... It was days before my 35th Birthday, and what should have been a time of celebration and thanks giving, I was completely paralyzed with feelings of uncertainty, sadness, and anger. Furthermore, I was unable to fully enjoy the beginning of my New Year of Life, and all the Love and support from friends and family.  Though there were blatant signs of my relationship ending, I chose to ignore most of them, and...

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"Im searching for a REAL LOVE"

Posted on March 30, 2014 at 7:55 PM Comments comments (6)

If you're single, and longing for companionship, don't allow that desire to overtake, and supersede your logic!


Often times, manning your own Ship can be hard, boring, dry, and tiresome. Couple that, with children, or the demands of work, paying bills, or just plain ol', surviving; anyone can become overwhelmed!, And develop a THIRST to either share their problems with someone, release the tensions of being single, or even to be physically stimulated! ALL ...

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Projection & Paranoia...

Posted on March 29, 2014 at 11:05 PM Comments comments (3)

If your mate begins to question your actions, and it seems to have come out of no where, usually the accuser is the one who should be questioned; NOT YOU!( think about it) -THE MISUNDERSTOOD SOCIAL WORKER-

© 2014, Joseph D. Williams

How Big is it?.....

Posted on March 29, 2014 at 10:50 PM Comments comments (3)

When you have a BIG DREAM, a BIG GOAL, or a BIG IDEA, please caution and avoid, small minded folk -THE MISUNDERSTOOD SOCIAL WORKER-

© 2014, Joseph D. Williams

No, that is not my bag....

Posted on March 28, 2014 at 10:00 PM Comments comments (0)

Dont allow someone's Pathology, Baggage, or B.S., to be your own... know this, EMOTIONAL LAZINESS is a disease that can be transmitted sonically! (look it up) -THE MISUNDERSTOOD SOCIAL WORKER-

© 2014, Joseph D. Williams

But; My friend told me........

Posted on March 27, 2014 at 5:40 AM Comments comments (0)

REMEMER: obtaining advice from your friends and family, is like asking those individuals, to tell you, THEIR STORY!

PLEASE NOTE: No two relationships or people ae the same! And what was present in their situation, may not be present in your own... Be confident in that knowledge! Avoid replicating your friend's mistakes or creating a sequal to their stories! -THE MISUNDERSTOOD SOCIAL WORKER-

© 2014, Joseph D. Williams


Posted on March 26, 2014 at 9:25 PM Comments comments (20)

In a failed relationship, accept the heart break, but reject the bitterness! Never allow a previous situation to ruin what could potentially be amazing! Learn from the pain, and grow past the previous problem! -THE MISUNDERSTOOD SOCIAL WORKER-

© 2014, Joseph D. Williams


Posted on March 24, 2014 at 1:55 PM Comments comments (2)



If a man, can't acknowledge your worth, beauty, gifts, greatness, or even what you mean to him, SOMETHING IS WRONG! And to use the excuse, "that's not me to do that", may result in you saying, "I don't either, good bye"


Remember, to be in a relationship with someone, their has to be consistent random moments of telling your mate how special they are to you!!! Not when you messed up, or even when prompted to! Practice stepping outside your...

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Posted on March 24, 2014 at 1:50 PM Comments comments (0)



It's unfortunate when someone, you truly love, doesn't see your value, or the value of your love.... Instead, of questioning yourself, learn to understand this, anything amazing, is Misunderstood... And real, is rare in this day and age!!!


So, stop offering up your goodness to someone who is unappreciative of it!!! Keep it to yourself, until that right person hunts you down for it!!! AND Trust Me, THEY WILL! ~ The Misunderstood So...

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